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How to Stop Wasting Time: Perspective
Stop for just a second and ask yourself: what is a week of your life actually worth?
We only have 4,452 weeks from the moment we're born until our 85th birthday (if we're given that many years).
Just...let that sink in. We have fewer than 5k weeks in an entire (generous) lifespan, and yet, sometimes we just let a "bad" or "off" week (or several) slip away without seriously evaluating underlying causes and lessons we could be learning.
Now, don't misunderstand: sometimes a week that's way more heavy on rest, fun, or flexibility is needed. Sometimes, crises (internal and external) endow a week with a heavenly purpose that we cannot immediately grasp from our point of view in the moment.

You’ve Got Wildly Important Things to Do
Pretend we’re at a coffee shop together.
I’m your best friend, and you’re pouring out your heart.
You’re telling me you don’t have enough time to do the things that are really important.
You feel stuck.
So I do what any good best friend would do. I lean in real close and I say, “You know what? You’re in control of how you spend your time because you’re an adult.”
(Just a little tough love—and then I buy you another coffee with extra whipped cream on top because I’m a 2 and you’re my person.)

How to Get Back on Track with Quarterly Goals
No matter how skilled we may be at developing solid rhythms, we all know what it's like for life to get a little bit "off track."
Whatever has thrown us off, we could all benefit from one key tip: set three focus goals for the rest of the quarter.
How exactly do quarterly goals help to get us back on track?
Imagine writing down your three main goals first thing in the morning, and then connecting with your motivating "why" for each one. You've just set up an accountability mechanism for yourself. You'll start to become acutely aware of when you're spending your time on non-essential things.
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